May 9, 2025

Looks Like We Made It...

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It's Friday! I don't go to work until 3:00 pm today, so I'll have this morning and part of the afternoon to do a little catching up. When I'm finished with my shift tonight, I'll have off the rest of the weekend!!! 

I'm really feeling my age after this week. The trouble coworker texted my boss about a half hour before her scheduled shift last night to say she was sick. That means the kitchen had to be closed again, because our manager had already put in a thirteen hour day in the kitchen and wasn't going to to keep cooking. She still had a couple hours worth of bookwork and real manager work of her own to do. That worker not showing up cost dollars lost for the owners in (no) food sales. Even thought we're shorthanded, how this woman still has a job is completely beyond me. 

I have to remind myself that it's "Not my circus. Not my monkeys." but it's difficult knowing how the rest of us have to pick up the slack. I'll be glad when my shift is over tonight. Perhaps I can put this whole week behind me then.

One fun thing about my job - and I don't know whether or not I've shared this before - is that I'm bilingual. I speak pretty fluent Spanish, but haven't had much occasion to use it in years until I started this job. I have a regular Hispanic clientele at the station because they know I can communicate with them, so I wanted to improve.

One day I'd spent more time than I should have trying to understand a young man who didn't speak a word of English (except "hi") and who had lost his passport. In my defense, he began the conversation by saying he "didn't have his passport" - which started me down the whole wrong path. "You don't need a passport to purchase anything here." "Do you have an ID if you want to purchase beer?" among other completely unnecessary questions and answers. Finally, he typed into his cell phone translator that he "lost his passport". Ah ha! I opened the lost and found drawer in front of me to find his passport at the top of the pile. After that, he and I laughed, he made a purchase and left. 

Enter Paulina, a beautiful, young Hispanic woman who is completely bilingual. I recounted this incident with her, telling her it had happened about twenty minutes earlier. I really could have used her help. I had misunderstood one word that made all the difference. Pierda. I thought he'd said, pierna. One means "lost", and the second means "leg". We both laughed knowing that I'd been trying to sell him some of our delicious broasted chicken, instead of opening a drawer for his lost item. (Insert facepalm here.)

Paulina suggested I could increase my Spanish word power using an app called "Duolingo" on my cell phone. I immediately installed it, and as of today have been learning and becoming more fluent over the past ninety three days! 

I understand how having people to converse with helps, as in high school two of my dad's friends spoke Spanish with me all the time - a Mexican tailor and a Catholic priest, both SCUBA diving friends. Dad was an instructor in his spare time, so he had a wide array of students and diving buddies who would come to the house to have their air cylinders filled. I learned Mexican Spanish from the tailor, and the priest spoke to me in Portuguese and Castillian (high) Spain-Spanish (even conversing with me by telephone when he spent time as a missionary in Paraguay). 

Paulina came into the station yesterday and asked how I was doing with the app, so I showed her my score. The best part was when she asked me if I have a person to regularly converse with in Spanish, I replied that I only converse with the customers, and there are a couple who are bilingual who like tutoring me when they're in the store. She said she'd be happy to stop in from time to time to have some conversation sessions. I immediately accepted her offer and look forward to her next visit.

I will say that when I learned Spanish over - ahem - five decades ago, I was fluent in conversation, writing and reading. I read college level textbooks in Spanish, watched movies without subtitles, and even dreamed in the language. Since I've been studying again, I'm again dreaming in Spanish, practicing writing and reading more. I even pulled out my old textbooks for more practice. The funny part is that, more than once, I've sat down to my computer to write a blog post and have to remind myself to write it in English. Funny, eh?

So, there was a silver lining in this week's clouds after all. I must remind myself to concentrate on such bright spots, and cast away the gloomy bits. I'll be much happier at the end of the day. A good lesson, wouldn't you agree? 

Finally, do you like that I managed to get two song titles into this post? hee hee I'm rather chuffed about that. Have a great weekend, friends. I'll see you again tomorrow. Right now, it's time for me to fly. (Squeeee. I got in one more!)

¡Hasta la próxima! (Until next time!)

13 comments:

  1. Nice that your week ended on a high. Kudos for working on your spanish. Hope you have a good shift today. Bev in NS.

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    1. Hi Bev:
      Sure did! Ended the week on a great note. Happy Mother's Day Weekend, dear.
      xoxo
      Donna

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  2. You are talented in so many ways!
    Marilyn

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    1. You're so kind, Marilyn.
      Happy Mother's Day Weekend, dear.
      xoxo
      Donna

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  3. There are days I find conversing in English challenging enough... LOL! I'm also glad it's Friday but the weekends are often no less busy. Sorry you've had such a "challenging" work week... the work force of today is certainly quite different than in years past. 🙄 But we'll just keep rolling, rolling, rolling on the river... Enjoy your weekend!

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    1. Hi Lois:
      You win! You managed to add another song title! Can you tell I'm over dealing with lazy employees? Good thing I'm not the boss, but I trust mine knows what she's doing. Happy Mother's Day Weekend, dear.
      xoxo
      Donna

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  4. Well, at least the ear worm is now two instead of one and they say variety is the spice of life, so all good. So glad you were able to help that young man even after a bit of a false start. I'm sure he appreciated that you were trying.
    As for the rotten employee, you know I understand about that because of our son. There is something wrong with parents these days allowing their kids to grow up with absolutely no work ethic at all. I guess we were the exception in that both of our boys are workers. Our chef son goes into work even when he's sick as a dog...gowned, masked and gloved, but he's there and doing his job. At one point he sliced the end off his finger and simply stuffed his bleeding hand into a glove and finished his shift before going to get stitches. Of course our boys had good examples from us....RC only missed two days in over 42 years of working and I know I didn't miss much more than that during my working years. Even when I was in school I always managed to get sick on the weekends and even managed to wait until grade 11 to sucumb to chicken pox - came down with them Friday night at the start of March break. My mother was not happy that I didn't manage to heal up enough to be able to go back to school at the end of the break and had to miss a couple days.

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    1. Hi MA:
      Thanks for sharing your story. Work ethic today is just completely different, as I'm sure you well know. I'm leaving thoughts of all that behind today. Only play this weekend, and back to the grind on Monday. I know I've got it easy compared to others. Happy Mother's Day Weekend, dear.
      xoxo
      Donna

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  5. Sherryofcreateology: I did not know until now that you are fluent in Spanish. My older sister is also fluent and taught school in a depressed part of Anaheim CA with all Mexican students. She also lived with families in Mexico to become fluent. Dreaming in Spanish is a true testament to being fluent. I am not even though I took Spanish in grade school. I wanted to take French but my mother would not let me because we travelled by car down to Ensenada and Rosarito Beach often. However I did do okay when Hubby and I traveled to Spain and we got lost returning our rental car. You are so right that if you don’t speak it often you lose the words. Enjoy your weekend dear.

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    1. Hi Sherry:
      It's nice that you were able to converse and use what you do remember, though. It's fun to start conversing as I remember more. I'm certainly much more confident than I was my first day! (Before I even clocked in, I had to help the English-only clerks communicate with a Spanish-only, irate customer. It turned out just fine.) Happy Mother's Day Weekend, dear.
      xoxo
      Donna

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  6. How many chances can you keep giving someone? They don't appreciate it and it helps no one.
    For me it wasn't Spanish, it was Polish. I spoke Polish before I spoke English. A few months
    ago I had some interior painting done by a friend. He is Polish and it was a fun week to get back to the language I haven't spoken since my grandmother passed many, many years ago.
    Enjoy your weekend.
    Shirley

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    1. Hi Shirley:
      I couldn't agree more! This chick is completely taking advantage - and I hate that she gets away with it. She's lucky I'm not in charge of anything. sigh What a wonderful week for you to revisit time with your grandmother through your conversations with this gentleman! So glad for you! Happy Mother's Day Weekend, dear.
      xoxo
      Donna

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  7. What a great story Donna, and good for you for delving into your Spanish learning again. Our son's partner is from Germany (though she's currently working in Austria) and they will be living there for the next four years for sure. When we found out a year ago he was moving to Germany she introduced me to Duolingo and I have been learning German every day since then. I haven't anyone to converse with but am getting quite good at listening comprehension and reading it. I am following a few German blogs and will start watching Youtube videos soon. I learned French when I was young, through Grade 11 and though I wasn't fully bilingual I could read novels without translating them. The German learning has inspired me to start reviewing my French as well. Such fun!

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Blessings, Donna